Motivation or inspiration

What’s the best way to get results? Is it to have motivation or to have inspiration? Well, from my perspective it is definitely inspiration, but you will need some motivation as well. What is the difference then?

Motivation is good to have in order to get you going, like taking that first step. Can be to actually get to the gym, or to start writing your post or maybe to start calling your prospects.  Motivation is mostly driven by fear: I must go to the gym or I will get fat, I must write that post otherwise my followers will let me down or I must make those calls to be able to pay my bills. Motivation is great short-term, but maybe not so great longterm. It will make results, but maybe just the results you need to get by and often not for long.

Inspiration is great, and will make you see grand visions, big goals and the perfect results. Inspiration is based on feelings and make you feel alive and ready to rock the world, but it tends to stay there unfortunately.

What I suggest is that you use them both in collaboration. You start by boosting up your inspiration with a lot of Why´s. Then start to think about what it can lead to, your dreams. And last boost up your motivation by thinking about what will happen if I don´t do anything.  This will lead you to have a thoughts mixed with emotions, inspiration mixed with motivation. The best thing is off course if you write it down to make it real and publish it to make it official, if you dare :-)

Then to get results, just think about one thing that you can do that will lead you closer to your dream. It can be anything, just a small research, a sketch or to take that first call. Just do one thing.

Then start thinking about the next thing you can do and do just one thing. As you go along you will get closer and closer step by step, and it won´t be hard.

Think about it as if you would plant a tree that slowly grows to become a wonder. You won´t see anything in the beginning, as long as it is in the ground. But when it comes up through the ground and get its sunlight, then you will see the results and then you will see it grow day by day.

Often we set big goals and think we can make it just by thinking about it or by making great plans and goals. But the fact is, that it is really hard to get there by share willpower. It is so easy to think you can do it all fast and then quit before you can reap the rewards from it.

To get more understanding about how you can take baby steps to overcome mountains, read my post and the book “The Slight Edge” by Jeff Olson

Take care and grow, little by little

/Peter

 

MKMMA week 1- The journey begins

The journey has begun, the sails are set and the anchor is no longer in place. Now, I the captain must direct the ship towards the big open sea. Let the storms come, for I am ready. Let the sun warm me, for I deserve it. Let the stars guide me, for I will need them. This will be a voyage never forgotten. Wonder where it will take me…

Mkmma - week 1, the journey begins

It feels that my faltering wander over the last couple of years finally led to this journey. I have had the “heroes journey” before, I have read Napoleon Hill before and I have been studying the power of mind. I have even read about “the law of attraction” and begun testing meditation. I have done it all, but with no definite purpose and with no guidance.

The Master Key Mastermind Alliance has it all in a package with daily tasks and weekly assignments. And they have Mark and Davene who are the inspiration and interpretation we all need. We will soon see if the guides can contribute as well.

It all started last sunday with a 90+ minutes webinar. We all got our assignments and it is now up to us to deliver, practice and grow. First off, a DMP where the future me was supposed to be described. Then reading of Mandinos first scroll three times a day, the blueprint builder, this blog, some Napoleon Hill insights and finally Master Key lessons from Henell. But there were one more thing. Taking complete control of your body. By sitting absolutely still for minimum 15 minutes in darkness with eyes closed just controlling your body. Harder than one can imagine, but an interesting exercise indeed. Except if you ask your wife, who think you turned nuts…

The days pass and the assignments are being taken care of. It all feels very natural and sound. Some doubts along the way offcourse, but otherwise everything is great. I can do this, I will do this.

A better me is about to be born, I can feel it coming slowly but surely

Take care out there
Love /Peter

Today it begins, MKMMA 2014

Yes, it is finally Sunday and tonight the first webinar will take place.

I have prepared myself by getting this blog, a Twitter account, some cards and a folder to keep it organized. I also bought a book called “The greatest salesman in the world” by Od Mandino. I have read the first 50 pages and am now anxious to start working on the rest of the book together with everyone else.

The feeling of the upcoming webinars am to me like something man made is going to start living. Like a toy gets alive. I have seen Mark in a lot of recorded videos, but never live.

And then we have coaches that is actually going to support each and every one of us. Exiting, to say the least.

Looking forward to the tasks as well. This will suit me perfectly. I do know have great business on the side and will practice my learnings there.

Next update after the webinar and after my first impression…

Take care
/Peter

Masterkey Mastermind Alliance MKMMA

It is about to start. Mark Januzevski “the lazies networker” has a very unique and special course called the MKMMA that start ones every year. This year I am going to take part in it, and I feel so excited.

I have followed Mark for quite a while now and am amazed in his excellent MLM skills and the way he teaches them for free. When I saw that this years mastermind course was up for grabs it did not take me long to decide. I want in. So I applied and got granted a scholarship. Tomorrow it will start…

This is not a usual education where they tell you what to do. Here you get to know how you do it. From the inside out depending on who you are and where you are in life.

I am really excited, and am looking forward to it.

Will try to keep my journey posted

Take care,
/Peter

P.s please leave a comment and wish me luck :-)

Find your flow, find your success

I have been reading and studying personal development for more than a year now and a conclusion starts to form.

If you compare the greatest names and their discoveries you can see that they are all connected and that everything is built around the same core. But everyone has their special field and if I try to generalize them it can sound like this:

Tony Robbins is very good at helping you find the why and purpose in life. Jack Canfield is very practical around general success and Less Brown is all about motivation. Then there is Jeff Olssen who encourage you to take baby steps all the way to heaven, and Napoleon Hill who wants you to be a man of infinite vision and definite action. Joe Vitali should not be forgotten who wants you to buy success from him through his mentors and his music. Zig Ziglar practice the salesman’s successes efficiently and Mark T Ecker wants to tune your mindset into being a millionaire.

There are off course many others, but these are the ones who comes to my mind right now of the ones that I have been studying. And we shall not forget the “secret”, the Law of Attraction that is so hyped.

What do they all have in common? :

It is your mind and your mindset that is the key to your success

The thought of meditation and visualizing that many speaks about feels a bit strange for a “learning by doing guy” that I am. I think it is easier to think about it as to get the right feeling for what you do, especially since thoughts and feelings combined are the strongest way to set your mindset in the right state for success.

I am 100% convinced that the only thing you will need to find success and happiness in your life is to find your flow. And what do I mean by flow. Well if you think back and remember a time when you had a success streak in any area of your life, then you know what I mean. For me it´s easiest to associate with sports, for example golf. Where you  succeed several holes in a row and begins to just play only based on your feelings and not thinking about anything else than your present and future success. Not thinking about the past, not thinking about how, not thinking about when, just playing and feeling great. Just seeing the ball rolling into the hole.

And how can we achieve such a feeling of flow in our lives?

By throwing away your backpack, set sail for new adventure and start exploring.

If you start your journey by applying Tony Robbins advice’s for purpose in life, then you will now why and get the strength to start.

Then you need to face reality as it is. What are your current situation, how did you get here and what can you do to get going? This will make you see things clearly and make sure you are true and honest to yourself, if you listen.

Now we need some inspiration, and by listening to Lesley Brown we can start to move mountains.

To get your journey started just pick up the Slight Edge and start by doing the small changes that slowly improves your life. Ask yourself constantly, is there anything that I should do that can be done? Write to do lists of all the things that comes to your mind and start to do them one by one. Make yourself a new habit of never keeping anything undone, then you won’t have to have a bad conscience any more. And by freeing yourself from that “backpack” you can start to look ahead, what else can I do?

Now start to form new habits that are good for you. Maybe quit something bad like nicotine, added sugar, candy etc. Or maybe start something healthy like taking the bicycle to work, or taking long walks regularly? The easiest way to form new habits are by taking 30 day challenges and write about your progress along the way. By doing so it gets real, in printing and hard to avoid. Also easy to find reasons to celebrate your small successes along the way.

And now the fun part begins. When you start recognizing your successes you can start to ride them like waves. One area of success can be a motivation for another area that needs improvement and when having more successes you are likely to fall into the flow. Just starting to feel great and your thoughts becomes emotions and you become unstoppable…

Find you flow, find your success

Good luck

/Peter

Please comment and hook up with me, cheers

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Conligus: A New Business Opportunity

Conligus is unveiling a new and exciting international business model and a concept that is elegantly simple.

The Network of Conligus.

The Network of Conligus.

“This is how today’s social media society is essentially operating and evolving, so why not turn recommendations and referrals into real dollars, residual income and additional revenue streams?” says a Company spokesperson.

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From April 8, 2014 at 12 noon Central European Time (CET). Conligus is proud to offer the chance for individuals who want more control and more from all aspects of their everyday lives to begin working together. To be part of a network of insightful entrepreneurs that all have common goals. The goals are simple and straightforward: success from striving and freedom through flexibility.

Being part of a global and dynamic network means that the hours that one chooses to work and the people that one chooses to work with, are down to one person. That one person is also empowered with the freedom to choose when, where, why and who.

Conligus is offering free pre-enrolment to people from all backgrounds and personalities. From the carefree to the challenge-hungry and the wilful to the wallflower. Conligus understands that the
common key drivers of today’s savvy society is the ability to make money, to meet new people and to strengthen bonds. The elegantly simple part of this business is that it is done simply by reaching out and making that network work.

Backed by a corporation that wishes to see everyone sample and celebrate success, all marketing materials, training and testimonials will be provided by Conligus. The only thing that one person needs to put in is one thing – oneself.

 

To get more information and to join team Sweden:

www.conligus.se 

 

The Compensation plan:

http://conligus.com/wp-content/uploads/Conligus_Compensation_Plan.pdf

 

The Why Guy:

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To join me:

http://cernvall.conligus.org/

 

Applying “The Slight Edge”

In December last year I wrote a post about a great book, “The Slight Edge” by Jeff Olsen. This post has recently received good feedback and even a request on a follow up post. So today I will make a follow up post to “The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson”.

What is “The Slight Edge? To summarize it down to it’s core, you can describe it as actions that affects your own life’s scale. Are you moving up or down?

Applying The Slight Edge

A picture can say more than a thousand words. The above picture can be used as a map, a map to success that speaks for itself. There are 3 things in particular that stands out in this picture:

  • First we have the 5% versus 95%, which represents the number of successful versus unsuccessful people (not becoming or attaining what they really want and dream about etc).
  • Then we have the “Easy to do” versus the “Easy not to do”, that states the reason for successful results to be the summary of all the good things you actually do.
  • And last we have the core, YOUR MIND

When I started my journey, my only focus was money. But it did not take me long to realize that without working with my mind first, I would not see any successful progress. Greed and fear was constantly fighting to be in focus and thoughts constantly switched in between, causing catastrophic results.

When I started to work on myself, instead of working on every shiny object coming in my way, I finally started to understand how to proceed and how to bring meaning into my life. I had been wondering about life’s purpose since over 15 years, and now it just hit me like a lightning.

To wander without a purpose is like traveling without a map. You see something you like and just go there without a thought, all the time. Ending up going in circles without getting anywhere. Even though I had a goal, to make money, it was very hard to get there (not to say impossible).

But after cruising around, failing and making mistakes I eventually started to get some clarity to where I was heading and how I could get there. My goal was still to make money but with purpose shifted the goals got multiplied and divided into short term and long term. If you only have a long term goal you will have to wait so long to celebrate, the chance of giving up before that is huge. And if  you only have one goal, what will you do when you reach it? Make sure you have many goals to be able to celebrate the small successes along the way. And make sure to have many goals to always keep striving, don’t you ever get comfortable.

And it is actually here that the slight edge comes in as a life saver:

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When you are working towards your small goals, big goals and towards your purpose you must use a system to survive and to get progress. A system to make constant improvements and growth. The slight edge is that system. By doing the small things every day and not giving up you get forward. By being disciplined and steadfast you will grow and grow beyond your imagination. Only the sky is the limit.

How do I start then?

Well. Let’s say that you know nothing, and don’t know where to start and don’t know anyone to ask. Then instead of starting by doing mistakes, as I did, you should read. You should read at least 3 different books about personal development in order to get life purpose, strength and confidence enough.

OK, so now we have goal. Read three books! Sounds fun and easy, could be done in a couple of months or so… Not to inspiring and not a simple task, ha? But if we change it to be in alignment with the slight edge, how would we do it then?

Well, then we would need a purpose first. For example: To learn more about our selves, to grow, to gain confidence and to get inspired.

Then we would need a way to do it: Read or listen to books and speeches about personal development.

Then we need a system to make it happen: Read at least 10 pages or listen 20 minutes every day.

OK, so what would happen then. The purpose makes me understand the real reason for doing this. The planned way make it possible. The system makes it fun, measurable,  successful, consistent and the goals makes it easy and possible to accomplish.

Can you understand the difference? Just to set one goal and try to reach it is not so easy, but if you do it the “Slight Edge way” it can be both easy and inspiring.

Next step can be to start writing down your ideas like I do. By writing at least one post a week, in a year I will have written more words than i would writing a novel. Hows that for training?

Or it can be taking on a challenge to break or start a habit. That is a perfect way to build some character and confidence. Could be done as a 30 day challenge. And if you apply a little of the slight edge with purpose, celebrating small successes and everyday tasks, you will have lots of fun doing it. Se these posts as examples: “30-day challenge“, “Next 30-day challenge: 30 days without nicotine as a start of my new addiction free life.

Oops, time flies and I need to wrap this up,

Take care and stay hungry

/Peter

Will I endure?

The other day my wife said to me that she was ashamed of what I am doing. That her friends husband had made a comment about me, and that she felt ashamed. She said “It was like if he asked me if you still were online fooling yourself with stuff that would not make you any money anyway”. She even said “Our friends are laughing behind your back”.

Did I get frustrated or what, did I feel like had failed miserably? Such a feeling of defeat, such a feeling of hopelessness. And I who thought that my wife was slowly understanding. And I who felt so good, so close, and so happy with my results.

But it is just to take it as a man, bite and go on. Make it a lesson and something to learn from. Either keep it a secret to my “IRL” friends and family, or to make them understand. My mission and beliefs were that everyone should see and notice my progress and my success without me having to tell and explain to everyone. To me everything has changed and so much has happened. Am I the only one to see that?

The list below shows you what has happened in just 1 1/2 year, since I started this journey:

  • I quit nicotine after more than 30 years of addiction
  • My temper is almost gone
  • My forgetfulness is almost gone
  • I am happy and with a life purpose for the first time in my life
  • I am much more fit and exercise a lot more frequent
  • I can now write much better (English, inspiration, fingering etc.)
  • I am now successful at work and get good assessment from my boss, never happened before
  • I am a loving husband and father (not a walking zombie)
  • I have patience now, can even go shopping with my wife with without sighing or dying
  • I have a lot of new friends and connection on Facebook etc, and many new “IRL” relations
  • I am now the president of the condominium association, with big responsibilities and great results

Does it not speak for itself? Do I have to make money to be successful?

For the first time ever I actually did have a genuine conversation yesterday with my wife about how I feel, why I did this and how good I feel about everything right now.  I cannot not say that she was pleased, since she told me that our relation had been the worst ever last year. She did at least seem to understand the necessity for me to do this, and I even got her blessing to carry on if I promised to focus a little bit more about the things that are important to her. What a breakthrough! Communication is an art, especially between male and female…

We all see things from different perspectives, but I thought that everything should be fine now and that my success should have been obvious to see and notice. But my wife expressed that she just had the worst year ever and with no notion of an end to the misery. I can understand her if I look back and remember all the sleepless nights and the struggles in front of the computer in the late evenings. My focus primarily in me and my feelings, not her and her feelings. And it is always hard to change old routines and patterns where doubt and hopelessness arises. I have also noticed lately that now when I do start to care about myself, I do not take “bossing around” any more. But now when I feel success most of the old troubles should be long gone.

My next goal is off course to make money with my new skills, connections and investments. But it is not a necessity to make me feel successful with what I do. I want to make money in order to be able to have a choice. To be able to choose between a regular job or to work online for myself. I also want to make money in order to make my life more fulfilled. To be able to pay others to do the stuff I do not want to do, like cleaning, cooking etc. To be able to buy the luxury stuff I want and to take the family trips I want.

So the answer to the question: Will I endure? Must be, yes I will endure. I will endure because I have to, and I will endure to finally break through financially. It is so easy to give up, but I will endure and I will prosper

Join me as I go along

Take care

/Peter

How to become happy and succesful?

Hello,

Have you thought about how to become happy and successful? I have, alot.

I have been striving to become happy and successful all my life, and I thought that happiness would come automatically with success. Recently I have discovered that the two doesn’t have anything to do with each other, and that happiness and success is connected very closely. Seem logical, right? I also found out that the reason for me seeking success was to get recognition and praise. We all want to feel appreciated and loved, no matter if we are kids or if we are adults. Earlier when I was studying to become a sports coach, I often practised my lessons learned on my colleagues at work. Worked just as good on them as on the kids I was coaching.

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What makes happiness and success connect is that they both depend on your own perception and definition of happiness and success. They also relate in influencing feelings of each other. When you feel succesfull, happines overwhelms you. And when feeling happy a sense of success creeps up and fills you.

But happiness doesn’t have anything to do with success because you can be happy without success, and you can be successful without being happy.

It is here that it starts to become interesting, since all my strive for success might not affect my happiness at all. What a failure it would be to become successful but unhappy. But what is most important here? To be happy? To be successful? Or both? Well that depends on how we define success and happiness.

What is success? Actually, no more than your own perception of the goals and expectations you have of your life.

What if we changed these goals and expectations to become a little bit more realistic? What if you had more goals and more milestones along the way that was easier to achieve? Would that not make you have more to celebrate, more to feel successful about?

What is happiness? Actually, no more than your own feeling of gratitude, satisfaction and love.

What if we could practice to become more thankful to what we have, to be more content to what we accomplish and to take responsibility for whatever happens to us.

And is it really the goal you are after? Or is it the journey getting there that will give you the most?

My suggestion is to start small with every decision you make and weight it on a scale of positive versus negative. Will this decision have a positive or negative effect on my life in the long run, as Jeff Olsen describes in his book “the slight edge”?

The slight edge

Then continue by viewing and realizing everything as it is, find your purpose and begin to determine outcomes for everything you do. It is hard to find your way if you don’t know where you are heading… More about this can be found by reading books and watching seminars by Tony Robbins.

And then as small successes starts to happen, try to visualize what you really want and get inspiration from the film or book “the secret“.

Start feeling how everything in life is about you, and how you can start spreading your message like rings on water. And by doing so helping others and creating both happiness and success for yourself.

Take care…

 

M&G Marketing

M&G Marketing is a tool for you to build a list, get leads and grow your business.

Have you like me been around for a while without really making any profit. Tried some trading, just to find out that you had feelings like greed and anger that stopped you from being succesful. Tried some MLM business, just to find out that you had to harass all your friends and family to get any members at all. Tried some affiliate marketing/selling, just to find out that you had a conciense and could not just sell anything to anyone. Tried some high risk projects that works great, but takes forever to actually get money in the bank.

Now finally, all that trouble is gone. Time has past, experience is gained and personal development made me at ease. And then as from the sky itself the program that solves my problems finally arrives. M&G marketing gets released and finally I can start to see the bright light in the tunnel. Just the idea of the program is so good that I sold it to 4 Facebook friends in just a couple of days. With 100% commission I must add, even though it only costs 49$.

What’s so special about M&G marketing then? Well, first of all you get at least 300 new leads every day. Leads that filled in a form regarding interest in home business. All these leads are downloadable and viewable with name, mail address and all. These leads all end up automatically in your pre written auto responder with 5 messages. If they opt in they will automatically go to pre written auto responder number 2 with 7 new messages.

So every day new leads come in, and every day new messages will go out. And the best thing is yet to come… It takes 3 minutes to set up your system and it takes a lifetime improving it. There are tons of different features and options you can choose to alter if you would wish to.

M&G Marketing is perfect both for the new marketer and the expert.

I am currently experimenting myself with pre written follow up messages regarding M&G marketing in case the first messages didn’t strike any interest. You can create whatever material you wish.

Did I forget about the best part? Yes I did, sorry. Being too excited here at the moment. The best part is that you can use this to grow any business you presently have. You can just invite your existing team, make new money on them and have a chance to make everyone successfull no matter their experience or workeffort. Then everyone promotes your existing system and are supposed to get an average of 1 new member each month, doubling your network every month!

Just imagine if everyone in your team did get one new member every month. Even if you start with 2 members it’s going to grow fast. Why one member every month you may ask. Well thats what the founders of this program expects because you get at least 300 leads a day. 300 leads makes around 3 actives everyday looking at your offer wich makes 1 a month if you use the one of a hundred princip. Then if you have a great offer this can get better, and if you work with you messages this can get better, and if you advertise M&G and get member that way this can get better.

And the compensation plan. 100% commision on every personal member startup fee. 100% commision on every personal member upgrade fee. 33% on first level monthly fee, 10% on second level etc. etc.

Is there any limitations on how good this can get? No, it gets even better actually because you can see the whole structure. You can see every message. You can see every parameter. And furthermore you can change it all by yourself, and you know what. YOU WILL LEARN. Just imagine how much you will learn just by seeing how this was made and by changing and personalizing as you go. I personaly think that it is much easier than Get Response…

Here is a screenshot of the backoffice mainscreen where you can access everything.

M&G marketing

 

 

http://mandghomebusiness.com/site/coins4all

and

http://mandghomebusiness.com/site/coins4all/power.html

 

And here is a screenshot of the autoresponder overview

M&G Marketing

 

There is so much that I could tell you about this system but, please go in and see for yourself instead. This is a slow steady listbuilder for life. With patience it has the potential to make you rich, because a big list is exactly what you will need…

Please look at the video and please make a comment to make this viral 😉

http://mandghomebusiness.com/site/coins4all/power.html

Take care

/Peter

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