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Framing expectations

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Framing expectations

What is effecting you most, framing or expectation.

Is there really a difference between framing and expectation?

Or should you just use framing to create the right expectations.

Today I had a strange day where my expectations were so low that it would even be hard to match. The reason was that I yesterday evening wasted three valuable hours of my sleep just browsing the Internet and loosing in binary trading trying something knew. My low is when I get too little sleep.

Not even the wonderful ride to work on my bicycle did much to help getting this day on the right track. When you expect things to go bad it does, when you expect it to go well it does.

It is the same when you are about to experience something new. The expectations you have built up determines the value and what you get out of it. Too high expectations will just make you feel dissatisfied and too low will make you miss the good parts.

What if you could frame your expectations perfectly?

This is exactly what we need to achieve in order to persuade someone into buying your products. But if you only have products that you yourself love and use, you don’t need to persuade, just need to explain the incredible value of the products. And the real value is what it can do for you, what it can make you achieve. What it can make you become. Perhaps a better person helping others reach their goals and dreams. An example of how good life can be…

The question is just how you manage to explain this. When you explain this to your wife/husband or friend, do they understand what you are doing? Probably not, unfortunately. And this is just because they do not have your expectations and surely some old preconceptions.

What if you could frame it so that they could listen without putting values to everything you say.

Well, to be honest. That takes a lot of practice. Luckily for us, it can be found on the internet in nice little video presentations.

So, to summarize. You won’t need to persuade, but you need to be able to frame the presentation of your message in order to make it come through without disturbing circumstances.

We are not selling products here, we are making dreams come through.

Take care,
/Peter

Useful little phrases

Useful little phrases

Useful golden phrases

Communication is important, but it takes skill to master. Today I am going to let you cheat a little by giving you some phrases that can help you in many everyday situations.

For instance, when you really want something or want
someone to respond in a positive way, try this:
“Would it be ok if…”

Sometimes you just don’t know what to say, or how to respond. For me, this becomes a fact when I get angry or frustrated. So, If someone makes you a stupid comment or blames you for something, you need to have some easy phrases to buy time and to easy down. Here are some examples:
“That’s Interesting, tell me more?”
“That’s Interesting, why would you say something like that?”
“That’s Interesting, why would you do that?”
“That’s Interesting, why would you ask me that?”

By using these simple questions you toss the dice back at them, which often get them out of balance, and at the same time get you a moment to think and to cool down.

Another situation can be when you ask someone a question and they start ramble about something completely different. Instead of just saying “ Can you get to the point!” you can easily get them back on track by just saying:
“So, you’re telling me…”

And finish the sentence by repeating the last phrase they said, which will wake them up and get them start thinking about what you really asked them from the beginning.

Last tip here is when you are trying to make a point or want something and the other person just throw some negative comment back at you. The just use one of these phrases and repeat the first message you said again:
“That may be, but…”
“I understand, however…”
“I see your point, and… “

This will make your message really clear and they will soon be out of comments if you repeat it up to three times.

Good luck,

Take care, and practice
/Peter

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How to succeed with Tube Cash Code by Corey Gates

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Hi,

Today I am going to reveal some ugly truths and also straighten some questionsmarks about the Tube Cash Code by Corey Gates.

So, where to start. Well, I can start by telling you why I am doing this in the first place. I have a 5-year plan of becoming financially independent. Not beiong in need of a fulltime work , but to be able to choose when and where I work . A lot has to be learned and a lot of mistakes has to be made…

Back to the review of Tube Cash Code by Corey Gates. I got a link this system from an email subscription i have, and started to search the internet for information. Ended up at Nancys Reviews and got hooked (more about her later). Bought the Tube Cash Code system with all up sells for like 300$ and tried to get started…

The members area are good with a lot of videos and instructions on how to make videos and how to find the right searchwords, keywords etc. But that did not make me get the whole picture, because when watching the commersial I got the impression that this would be set up and just for me to hook up…

The truth was that all the up sells gave me 5 designed sites that I could use if I bought a domain and webhosting for another 250$. And there was also other options of more sites to buy and additional systems to buy. Talk about dissappointment. Either invest more or start to make your own videos to earn money from. I immediately requested a refund. After a couple of days I got an answer. They really wanted me to try things out first, before refunding me. So back to the system and give it a try. Really hard to understand how I should make this work without more investments so back to the internet to search for advice.

What you can find about the Tube Cash Code by Corey Gates on youtube and google is either people hyping it trying to sell it or people claiming it is a scam, just in order to sell something else. So no real information there unfortunately. Then by looking at comments and stuff I finnally found the solution….

In order to succeed with the Tube Cash Code you have to open an account with clicksure or clickbank (no affilita links here. lol). You go ahead and find yourself a nice product that you get an affiliate link for and then start promoting it by using the Tube Cash Code. Easy as a pie.

By using the Tube Cash Code you can scan the search words for your product and see the existing videos on youtube ranking high with these searhwords. You can then “borrow” some of their content or keywords etc. and use as your own. You can even download videos in the Tube Cash Code system and use as your own. Beware though, because there are rights protections and stuff that you have to be carefull with…

Here is an image of the program that you use to do the magic:

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But then another problem arises. Google and the other search engines are becoming smarter than just using your keywords to get you hits. You now need backlinks, social sustainability, virality etc. as well and that might get complicated. So how do we do it now?

Well, the first recommendation in the members area of Tube Cash Code was to call a “Start up specialist” so then I tried that by never got through unfortunately. But according to peoples comments they are great, so I will have to keep on trying. My bad is that I live in Sweden and my timezone is like 6 hours before theirs. And for me calling in the evening with family home, not possible.

Another option is the live sessions Corey himself will hold, but in my timezone its 3AM. Another dead end.

Back to reality and to solve things myself as usual. Started to browse the internet again and went to Nancys rewievs once again to try digging up some more information.

Finally I discovered the truth about this lady (or is it a shady fat man in reality?). She claims to be earning a lot by using this system but will not reveal her videos to protect her work she says. But the truth here is that it is not the videos she earnes her money from, its her review. She made a new account on clicksure and sure made some videos, but they all refer back to her review. So her being honest and trying to help people is just her way of making money on the Tube Cash Code system. But the system surely helped her to get ranked and to get the eyeballs she needed. A win win situation for her :-)

Conclusion:

Yes, the Tube Cash Code by Corey Gates can make you money if you use it right and spread your footprint on the internet. It will definitely help you get ranked and there are resourses there to help you out. I recommend it both as a tool to help you get educated and also as a system to work with to get money. But don´t expect it to be automatic as in the videos.

Please help me earn money by buying it below, and I will help you earn money as well. Transparence is a rare thing these days unfortunately. Everyone else is trying to hide their affiliate link by shorten it…

http://cernvall.tcashcode.clicksurecpa.com 

And here is “my” video showing the commersials, please view and comment

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vJMp2L3mFIc

Best regards

Peter Cernvall

Look me up on facebook or google+ so we can share possibilities in the future (I have some good ones up my sleeve)

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This is one of the commercial videos for Tube Cash by Corey Gates. In this video he shows what is possible when everything is setup properly. He gives his already working sites to a number of people. The software allowes you to get ahead of the competition on the internet and rank high on Google and Youtube. Then if you buy the up sells and a webhost you can get the ready designed websites customed right for you.

A great system indeed that you should try. If you buy it using my link I can show you exactly what to do to get up to speed in just days. I will sponsor and mentor you personally. Good luck: http://cernvall.tcashcode.clicksurecpa.com

Quality time

My family went to London and I am all alone for 5 days. Will it get lonely, or will it be a pleasure? So far I can say neither, but we will see if that changes when I get into day four or five. Spent yesterday working, both at my job and at home. Then got a couple of hours to relax in front of the computer :-). Today has unfortunately been dedicated to work as well. Built some shelves, cleaned all windows, fixed some cordes and is now doing laundry.

Sounds a bit boring right! But not necessarily because it had to be done, and I finally found time to do it. And to finally get it done is a relief. A huge burden has lifted from my shoulders and it feels great.

Now I have almost all evening to do things that I want to do, and that is rare. My quality time. And I can enjoy it even more now when my conciense is clean.

It is important to find quality time, so that you can really focus on things that you need to do. And you have time to take action, to do something new that your have never done before.

Normally when you have a family with kids and a fultime job you don’t get any quality time on your own. And I have actually missed it. Earlier I used to sit up late in the evenings and play games, which actually passed good for quality time. Only problem there was that both family relations and job got affected. Not ok.

My dream is to have quality time every day. My 5-year plan is all about it. To be able to work from home as much as I like, and to be able to take vacations when I like.

Take care, and go find some quality time of your ownQuality time