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Today is the day

Today is the day to take action. Today is the day that shapes your destiny. Today is the day that counts, because you newer know what happens tomorrow.

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My deepest condolences and sympathies to foremost the French people, the Turkish people and the families and loved ones of the victims. But we can not dwell on the past and circumstances that is out of our control. Bad things will always happen to us and others, but we can only learn from them and go by. All your prevous mistakes and all the misfortunes that happens must become lessons and memories to learn and grow from. The same goes for worries of what could happen in the future. Make plans to deminish the risks you see but do not dwell on them.

We can only fokus on what is here and now. Make dreams and plans for the future but take action to reach them today. It can be small things, it can be ridicoulus things. The only thing that matters is that you do it. Today is the day to take action, not tomorrow…

If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got. Do something different!

Take me for example:

My site, this site, My dreamtutorial will become the portal and home for anyone and everyone having an online adventure. To accomplish this I make small improvements every day. It can be a post, a link to something inspirational, a new page, a change in the header, a new welcome mail to my subscribers. As long as I do something every day it grows, and I grow with it.

My businesses: By reaching out to new people, by doing the tasks I am supposed to, by repurchasing and by implementing new ideas it grows little by little. As of now my passive income grows by aproximately one dollar every day. May not be much, but a dollars growth increasing every day will make next summer extremely pleasant. And my investments grows even more :-)

What about you?

Do you have a dream, a project or a plan that you can realise by doing the daily little things. Or do you dwell on the things that you can´t control instead? Forget the past and embrace the future. Contact me and we can make it together. I can be your mentor and I can be your pupil. We always have something to learn from each other.

Today is the day that starts the rest of you life. Make it a good day

Start by putting your energy on areas that works, preferably where your passion lies. On things where results are easy to see. Then by celebrating and feeling good about your small successes you get power to take on more things. Before you realize it you are starting to see improvements in all areas of life. Just make sure you take action on stuff thats needs to be taken care of, not only the easy ones. For me working online has been a rollercoaster with many ups and downs. If something does not work for me today, I just shift to whatever works for me better instead. Everything goes in cycles and every bussiness encounter problems from time to time. By sleeping on it, the problem often get solved by itself.

To your success

/Peter

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The best ways to make money online

The best ways to make money online is to focus on your goals and diversify your work and investments in five different areas, guided by an experienced mentor. Earlier this week I wrote a post about “diversify focus to ensure results“. Then it was all about your personal development. Today I will talk about your work online, and more specifically how to make money online. Whatever your purpose and goals are, making money is always the key to it all.

The first thing you really need to focus on when figuring out the best ways to make money online are your goals. You will need both long and short-term goals:

  • What is the true purpose of my work online?
  • Where will I be in five years?
  • What baby steps do I take today to get there?

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In your personal development you need to diversify by working on different aspects of your life. When it comes down to working online, you need to diversify sources of income as well as work.

You will need longterm investments and you will need short-term investments. You will need some investment only to be able to acquire passive income. You will also need to invest time and effort into something that requires you to stretch, grow and learn. And you will need something that brings you true happiness, regardless of income.  Most importantly, all of these must be wide-spread not to depend on one “golden egg”. The same principle as in personal development. You can’t lay all of your focus in one area. What if it goes wrong?

It must be stated here that many income opportunities online are very risky and might be closed down for any number of reasons. By experience and many disappointments you eventually learn what works and what doesn’t. It is a learning experience as everything else. And this is another reason to why diversification is even more important when choosing the best ways to make money online. Following are my experienced recommendations to diversify your online activities:

  1. Blog: An absolute must to start with. Great way to start taking action and learning the skills you need. A long-term never-ending business opportunity. Example: WordPress.com or WordPress.org
  2. Charity investment: Even if you invest in your happiness and other people’s quality of life. There is a way to combine it with long-term investments that will give you nice pension bonuses. Example: Better Globe
  3. Net revenue sharing. The easiest, safest and most lucrative way to build a steady constantly growing passive income. Example: Traffic Monsoon and MyPayingAds
  4. MLM, multi level marketing. Not a success for everyone, and hard to find sustainable companies. But a must to learn more about yourself and how people really function. Has to be combined with a product that increases in value to ensure income even without successful recruiting. Example: OneCoin
  5. Financial Investments. Investments with structured leverage products. Uniquely enables the possibility to earn high returns with a relatively small investment. Example: Icon Sachs

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In coming blog posts I will explain each of the above areas in more details. I will also talk about the opportunities that I recommend in detail. No affiliate links are present, but you are off course welcome to join me. Just hook me up on Facebook or send me a comment.

All my commissions from initial investments will be yours to keep, as a thank you :-)

There are many other areas online where you can learn and earn a good income. But only the above has worked for me, and I have tried everything that came in my way. I started out with trading, but learned the hard way that feelings and emotions work against you. What business can work without feelings and emotions? I then tried systems and signals to trade binary options and to bet on sports and horseracing. Impossible to find a steady program where you can rely on the system, or without working day and night.

Next up was pure MLM, multi level marketing, where most programs were to depending on a steady growing base of new members investing. Eventually growing to big to handle even with sufficient new members. Or to big for not being stopped by some external hand like governments, banks, financial police, suing members etc. Also extremely dependent on your capacity to make your recruited members succeed in recruiting new members. For me impossible to cope with the bad conscience of my members loosing their investments.

I also tried network marketing to sell affiliate products. Both in communities like Empower Network and MLSP and through specialized companies like Clickbank and Amazon. A great way to earn a living for many skilled marketers with years of experience, but way to hard for a beginner.

As you can see, the best ways to make money online can be a tough and expensive road to find out yourself. Better to get yourself a mentor that already did the lessons and finally came out on the other side. Happy, experienced and finally making money :-)

Good luck and take care

Peter,  (your own dedicated coach, mentor and personal advisor online)

 

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Diversify focus to ensure results

Diversify focus to ensure results. What if you only focus on one thing, and that doesn’t work? Would that not feel discouraging, and even be a reason to quit?

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In my last post (make yourself useful) I wrote about developing your skills.  When you do, you need to focus. It is impossible to quit smoking, go on a diet and start exercising at the same time. But if you can choose different areas in your life and focus on one thing in each area, then it becomes much easier and your chance of success increases.

As an example:

  • Health: To improve your health you choose to focus on getting adequate sleep, or to eat less sugar.
  • Relations: You focus on being happy and loving every time you come home, and surprise with a gift sometimes. Or you could decide to be totally present, without your phone, whenever your family is around you.
  • Work: Here is your focus on being “prompt” and prepared all the time.
  • Personal development: You read from a “good book” and write your plans and checklists every day. Alternatively you work on your skills to set up a blog, write a post or learn to understand SEO etc.

By doing all this but only focus on one single thing for each area of your life, you diversify focus. And the best thing about it is that you will always have something to celebrate and feel good about. Success feeds success. If it is habits that we are working on you must remember that it takes 14 days straight to learn them. After that and not before, you can choose to work on a new habit. If it is a hard habit to break or implement, try a 30-day challenge :-)

It is all about growing and replacing bad habits with good ones. If you don’t grow you shrink. If you constantly work on your habits you will slowly but surely change your life completely. You can read all about your habits and how it can change your life in the book “The Slight Edge“. I wrote 2 posts about that book a while ago: “The slight edge by Jeff Olson” and “Applying “The slight edge”.

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Take care and grow,

Best regards

/Peter

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Make yourself useful

Make yourself useful and increase your value. In my last post (Thank you for subscribing to my blog!) I talked about the purpose of my blog and my plan to make it useful for you. But this concept is not unique. Everything today is about providing value. Especially when it comes to the size of your paycheck.

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Are you being paid sufficiently? Your salary is only a measurement of the price you can be replaced for. If you only know what most people on the street know your “price tag” is cheap. But if you have special skills or knowledge it will get expensive to replace you.

What I recommend you to do is to develop your skills. And in particular, dwell on your passions. What you love to do is easy to learn. Especially since all skills needs learning by doing and repetition to master. But, the most efficient way to learn is by teaching…

And here the blog comes in again. By teaching others what you know you learn. And by teaching others you also provide value. Providing value is another great way to prove your worth. Lately I have been hearing that the description of your value is also by the amount you share, or “you get what you give”.

It is strange, but I start to believe that coincidence is a rare factor. Most things we do have a purpose, and most things are meant to happen. This is not like if things are supernatural, but rather that we shape our lives whether we want it or not.

Think about it like this: when you play with your kids and look for a yellow car, there are suddenly much more yellow cars out than usual. Or like when you fall in love with the Tesla cars, suddenly you see them a lot. “What you seek you shall find”.

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If your mind is negative and stressed you will find more negativity and stress. But if you affirm yourself with positive thoughts, set your goals and expectations high you are much more likely to find success and happiness. Like “the law of attraction” but in a more logic and realistic way.

Take care now, and please affirm yourself

Make yourself useful

/Peter

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Positive Affirmation helps

Positive affirmation is almost like cheating. Because when you repeatedly give your mind positive affirmation, it starts to react as if they were true. Your mind cannot distinguish between reality and fiction. That is probably why we get nightmares when we see scary things, even if we know they are not for real. As in Sweden summer of 1975, when Jaws had premier in the cinemas. The bathing areas all around Sweden suddenly got empty.

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Positive affirmation is simply put positive words spoken about yourself, your abilities and what you want to accomplish or become. These can be spoken by yourself by a script, to reassure that the same message gets repeated. Preferably in front of the mirror out loud. Works like a charm…

But to make it easier for us who may not want to speak out loud in front of a mirror, there are recordings. These you can just listen to in front of the computer, or even better on your phone.

A couple of days ago I got a fantastic recording of a positive affirmation in a nice format. You can just save it as a bookmark in your browser. I got it from Gavin Mountford: http://networkingsuperstars.com/affirmations/

Either you can bookmark his site or the actual recording:

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Please try it. For me it immediately makes me think about what I do during the day and how I do it. It has like ready instructions for how to live your live and what to think about, whatever you plan to do. Suddenly I began planning the next day before I got to bed. And suddenly I started to prepare myself better before going to meetings, and suddenly I smile more…

Positive affirmation: “You can do it, and you know you can”

Take care and grow,

All the best to you

/Peter

 

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How to become happy and succesful?

Hello,

Have you thought about how to become happy and successful? I have, alot.

I have been striving to become happy and successful all my life, and I thought that happiness would come automatically with success. Recently I have discovered that the two doesn’t have anything to do with each other, and that happiness and success is connected very closely. Seem logical, right? I also found out that the reason for me seeking success was to get recognition and praise. We all want to feel appreciated and loved, no matter if we are kids or if we are adults. Earlier when I was studying to become a sports coach, I often practised my lessons learned on my colleagues at work. Worked just as good on them as on the kids I was coaching.

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What makes happiness and success connect is that they both depend on your own perception and definition of happiness and success. They also relate in influencing feelings of each other. When you feel succesfull, happines overwhelms you. And when feeling happy a sense of success creeps up and fills you.

But happiness doesn’t have anything to do with success because you can be happy without success, and you can be successful without being happy.

It is here that it starts to become interesting, since all my strive for success might not affect my happiness at all. What a failure it would be to become successful but unhappy. But what is most important here? To be happy? To be successful? Or both? Well that depends on how we define success and happiness.

What is success? Actually, no more than your own perception of the goals and expectations you have of your life.

What if we changed these goals and expectations to become a little bit more realistic? What if you had more goals and more milestones along the way that was easier to achieve? Would that not make you have more to celebrate, more to feel successful about?

What is happiness? Actually, no more than your own feeling of gratitude, satisfaction and love.

What if we could practice to become more thankful to what we have, to be more content to what we accomplish and to take responsibility for whatever happens to us.

And is it really the goal you are after? Or is it the journey getting there that will give you the most?

My suggestion is to start small with every decision you make and weight it on a scale of positive versus negative. Will this decision have a positive or negative effect on my life in the long run, as Jeff Olsen describes in his book “the slight edge”?

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Then continue by viewing and realizing everything as it is, find your purpose and begin to determine outcomes for everything you do. It is hard to find your way if you don’t know where you are heading… More about this can be found by reading books and watching seminars by Tony Robbins.

And then as small successes starts to happen, try to visualize what you really want and get inspiration from the film or book “the secret“.

Start feeling how everything in life is about you, and how you can start spreading your message like rings on water. And by doing so helping others and creating both happiness and success for yourself.

Take care…

 

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Let us make this year even better than the last one

Happy new year to you all..

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Let us make this year even better than the last one!!!

For me personally, I can say that I had the best year since my kids were born.

And why is that you may ask, well it´s because I finally started to take care of myself and think ahead. It is so easy to be living in the past and just live one day at the time not caring about the future.

But what happens then? Nothing, life goes by and it feels comfortable. You may even enjoy those little extra treatments of food, candy, luxury spending and not to forget all those lovely lazy days.

But what happens then in the long run? You will not enjoy it for long when your health starts to get affected and when your bank accounts are getting emptied. Then you will get depressed and urge for more “treatments” just to keep you happy. And so the spiral goes on in a never ending drowning hole…

But what can we do instead? I don´t wanna make my life miserable just to get better later on…

Start with the little things. As someone wise said “simple is better”. Make it simple and do it small everyday instead of trying to make it all happen at once. You will never succeed is you expect results immediately. What do you think happens to all the people that wins big in the lottery? Most go broke again, some cant handle it and just a few get happy. And why is that you may wonder? Because they did not earn  it, they never had to fight for it. Did you ever as a kid steal candy? If you did, you know it just didn’t taste as good as the earned and bought one, right?

But if you have a desire to change, to make things better in life. Can you do it? Yes you can do it, and you will make it happen if you just keep on working on your dreams one day at a time. But remember, it is not the goal that is the satisfaction. It is all the little successes and victories along the way. Believe me, because I started this journey a year ago and I still haven’t got much closer to my goal even though it feels like I’m already there.

My problem was that I had no clue on where to start or how to do it. I just decided that enough is enough and it’s time to do something useful instead of wasting time and money on gaming and gambling. So I started by searching the internet and boy did I get screwed again and again. I did not know that it could be so easy so I just over complicated everything and was searching for instant results all the time. But you do not have to do the same mistakes as I did. You can just step on the right path and get going instantly without spending a lot of time and cash for nothing. Well, it was not for nothing since I now know so much more and have learnt many lessons. I also know that I will never be able to sell stuff on the Internet that everyone is trying to make you. I might still recommend stuff I like but never for the purposes of getting rich. That is not for me and I strongly advise you to stay away as well.

Oh, falling out of subject here sorry. Back to you and me, and our journey towards being better and happier…

After reading some of the books recommended below, and trying it our for myself, I can now truly say that the journey begins with a desire,  continues with a goal and takes off with daily actions.

Take health for example. The most important and the easiest to start with, since it is so easy and so important to get results. A couple of daily/weekly suggestions:

  • Sleep regularly. Try to go to sleep the same time every night and try to get up at the same time every morning. Measure how much sleep you need to feel rested and have that as a goal. Will probably decrease if you work on the following suggestions…
  • Exercise daily, start with sit ups and push ups. Just a couple to start with and then increase slowly.
  • Make a decision every time you start to eat or drink. Is this good for me, or is it just instant gratification?
  • If/when you are up to it: Workout or run 2-3 times a week. Start slowly and enhance as you get stronger

Next area is your personal development:

  • Start reading books every day. Books about personal development or books that show you how to reach your goals. If you just read 10 pages every day you will have read several books by the end of your first year.
  • Listen to inspiring audios or watch inspiring videos every day on you downtime, going to work, out walking, doing house cleaning etc. Available on YouTube or Ted.com for example.
  • Stop wasting to much time watching television, gaming or gambling. It is not good for you.

The last but not least area is off course finances:

  • Start by putting aside a small amount from your paycheck every month and see if you can spare it. Then increase that amount every month until you find your limit. Put it on a separate savings account with good interest rate and you will see it grow.  I might come up with some investment suggestions later on…
  • Make a decision every time you buy something, is this really useful or is it just for instant gratification (same as for food or drink)
  • Keep an open mind for Ideas. Maybe you can come up with something unique?

Then there are the social area which I will not go into today because it will come naturally once the others are being worked on, and because it will be talked upon in other ways and in other posts. Like “is anger you worst enemy” , “useful little phrases” , “quality time” etc.

So how to start then? Well, start with your desires. Write them down and make some goals out of them. The goals need to be precise and measurable. Two of my goals as examples:

  • By June I’m going to the beach without a t-shirt, and feel good about it.
  • In five years I will have the choice to work as an employed or not, because my income on the side will be as big or bigger than my paycheck.

I also have a desire to become a personal coach of some kind but have not been able to formalize the goal for that yet. And then there is the retirement desire. How will my life be when I retire? Yet to come…

Well, I think that sums it up for today.

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Take care and burn with desire for the better

/Peter

Books to read that I recommend:

The slight edge

Think and grow rich

Secret of the Millionaires mind